I already noted that I don't consider the human personality as a mixture of male and the female substance, as Weininger does. But some Buddhists also believe that to become a Buddha, a men needs to get in touch with his female aspect, a woman with her male. OK, but in any case I don't think that the correct practice should make you homosexual: the trick is to integrate the components properly. And if you meditate by my method, everything fall into place: then you cannot say that you're a man in the classical sense if only because you lose the desire to dominate and no longer worry about your status; on the other hand, you're also not a woman if only because you don't tempt anyone, don't let anyone inside you, and become completely indifferent to what others think of you.